This brief examines the use of an old saying for application in today's busy and confusing world of dating and romance.

The old saying "I wouldn't want to be a member of any group that would accept me as a member" is a funny way of stating one's shortcomings.

We all know we have areas where we do not shine, where we need to work and improve. The saying however makes much sense when we apply it to the world of dating and romance.

If you are looking for love in bars for example you are most likely going to find it: bar love, that is. Bar love may be typified by short, intense encounters meant to satisfy the momentary desire, but not strong on supplying or building a life together.